Just a quick update to say that while I will probably not meet the Dalai Lama while I am here (he’s a busy man), I saw him today! He returned from a speaking trip in the US today, and we happened to be lunching with some friends at the cafe in his residence’s complex, and they happened to have heard from some Tibetans that His Holiness would be arriving around 3 pm. Needless to say, we waited outside with the crowds alongside the road until about 5 pm, but he arrived and it was amazing.

I’ve heard stories about his presence, about what it’s like to meet him, about what he’s like as a person and a speaker; I can’t contribute much to that anthology, because I only saw him through a car windshield, but I was about five feet from him, and had a clear line of vision. The moment I saw him, I of course knew immediately that it was him, and I gasped in excitement in spite of myself. He was smiling pleasantly and waving at everyone with a slightly bemused look, as if to say, “Oh, hello, fancy seeing you here,” despite the fact that people were bowing to him and saying prayers and taking pictures and just generally being overwhelmed. Just another manifestation of his impressive humility. I do wish I could have a chance to talk to him.

We have ultimately decided to stay in McLeod Ganj/Dharamsala for another week or two instead of trying to cram the entire country of Tanzania into 10 days, so this leaves me plenty of time to catch you all up on, well, all the places I haven’t written about in the last several months. In order to not confuse you all, I’m inserting here a chronological list of everywhere I’ve been in India so that you can refer back to it if necessary. (Note: I have included links for some, but these are not links to all my India posts, sorry.)

Delhi (1) and Agra

Goa

Mangalore/Karnataka

Kerala: Fort Cochin/Ernakulum, Munnar/Karadipara, the backwaters/Kumarakom/Alleppey, Trivandrum

Mumbai (1)

Shirpur

Mumbai (2)

Panchgani (and Wai and Mahabaleshwar)

(Mumbai (3))

Rajasthan: Udaipur, Jodhpur, Jaisalmer

Delhi (2)

Haridwar/Rishikesh

Dharamsala/McLeod Ganj

In case you haven’t been aware, the last few months in India have been leading up to the huge National Elections, which started April 30th and will somehow continue for the next few weeks. (I don’t quite understand.) Anyway, I just stumbled upon this interesting article by an Indian, a Mumbai resident, commenting on the elections. It sums up a lot of issues and things I’ve thought of over the course of my time here.

First, some logistics: you may have notices that at the top of the sidebar on the right, there’s a new widget that says “My RSS.” If you click on the little logo, you can go to a site that lets you subscribe to my blog, so it will send you my updates. At least, that’s how it’s supposed to work. Let me know if it does.

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As I mentioned in my post about getting robbed, we are now in Dharamsala, in the mountains leading up to the Himalayas. (I would call them foothills, but they are mountains in their own right. I guess that’s what happens in the world’s largest mountains – everything is bigger.) Technically, we are in McLeod Ganj (pronounced mc-CLOUD GAN-j, bizarrely), the home of the Tibetan Government-in-Exile (and, therefore, the Dalai Lama), a town a little north of Dharamsala, but everyone refers to it as Dharamsala in the wider world. Don’t ask me why.

McLeod is unlike anywhere else I’ve been in India. As the displaced Tibetan capital, it is understandably filled with Tibetans, and often feels more like Tibet than India. Of course, skeezy Indian men are ubiquitous within India’s borders, so you can’t escape that, but otherwise, I would call McLeod more of an international community than anything else. There are tons of people from all over the world who are either just passing through, or moving here for months or years. Some people are here for Tibetan Buddhist, some for spiritualism, some for yoga and/or reiki, some to work with refugees and/or help the Tibetan cause, some to just chill with other Dirty Backpackers (yes, it’s a thing), some to hike around and use it as a launching point for Himalayan treks… the possibilities are endless. Over the four or so days that we’ve been here, we’ve met so many interesting people and had so many interesting conversations, and it’s all so fluid that I don’t even know the names of half those people, much less have contact information for them. We always just say, “I’ll see you around town!” The assumption is that you will stay longer than planned, because it’s just that kind of place. Indeed, it reminds me a lot of Ubud, in that sense.

That is, in fact, the problem we are facing at the moment: whether to continue on as planned to Tanzania for ten days, or to spend the next few weeks here, volunteering with Tibetan refugees, doing yoga, and getting to know the community and area here.

In the meantime, I have talked Willa into going to yoga classes with me, and I’m hopeful that we have a new convert, or will have one by the time we leave. We have taken a Tibetan cooking class from a really cool Tibetan guy – Sangye – during which we had a very interesting conversation about the Tibetan/Chinese situation. We have enjoyed really good international food, and appreciated the proliferation of good coffee and adorable coffeeshops (think Seattle) here in McLeod.  We’ve hiked up to a waterfall with an amazing view and enjoyed the fresh mountain air. We have developed favorite cafes and restaurants where we are friends with the Tibetan owners and staff, and we hang out in the evenings watching documentaries and movies about Tibet (last night was Seven Years in Tibet), chatting afterwards with the other international viewers. We’ve visited the Dalai Lama’s temple and the complex his residence is in, though at the moment he’s in California, I think. Unfortunately. I would love to meet him, but it seems a little unrealistic.

Second semester senior year (so, this time last year), I took a class on Tibetan Buddhism. At the time, I couldn’t have imagined I would be here, in what some call “Little Lhasa.” (Lhasa is the capital of Tibet.) It’s been so amazing to see how much of what I learned then comes back now that I am here, surrounded by Tibetan Buddhism and culture. I frankly didn’t realize I’d remember so many details, but I appreciate it.

Stay tuned to see where we go next – we don’t even know!

Everyone remembers ‘Buddy Jesus’ from Kevin Smith’s brilliant religious satire film, Dogma, right? Who could forget that hilarious parody of the commercialization of religion and spirituality?

Ladies and gentlemen, I have found its match in Hinduism/eastern spirituality. As soon as we arrived, Buddy Jesus sprang to mind. Willa describes it as Disneyland spiritualism. Welcome to Rishikesh.

We spent our first night there at some friends’ ashram in Haridwar, about twenty kilometers south of Rishikesh, a town comparable in Hindu religious importance to Varanasi, though the latter tends to be more well-known among foreigners. Thus, Haridwar is more aimed at domestic spiritual tourists, giving it a slightly more “Indian” feel; that is to say, there is much less English, and, while we are of course objects of stares, we are not the primary objects of touts.

Located on the Ganges River (or, the Ganga, as it is called here), far in the north, before it gets really dirty, Haridwar has little to recommend it other than a ton of temples and ashrams, only some of which are impressive. The real sight, though, is the sunset aarti ritual, which, I believe, takes place all along the Ganga, at last in the north. Aarti consists of lots of prayers and the release of lots of poojas by devotees into the river. Regardless of your religious affliations, this is a beautiful sight, because the poojas consist of coconut-like shells filled with flowers and other various offerings, with a tiny candle-like paper that allows for several minutes of flame. Thus, as it takes place at dusk, the aarti looks like tons of small flames floating down the river. Needless to say, this is beautiful, and I had some amazing pictures of it that none of us shall ever see, thanks to yesterday’s events.

We also made friends with an Indian family from Delhi who were up there for a few days, which was really fun.

After a rather chill day exploring somewhat sleepy Haridwar, being followed by some obnoxious teenaged boys, having a water bottle stolen by a money, and hiking up a mountain to check out some very popular temples, we headed up to Rishikesh for the hardcore spiritual tourism. We walked into town and the first thing I saw was a guy in an “Om” t-shirt. (It didn’t say “Om,” but rather the Hindi character for “Om,” which becomes recognizable very quickly here, as it’s written on everything wherever people are Hindu.) Then I began to notice all the stalls were full of spiritual memorabilia. The signs posted everywhere were for spiritualism classes, meditation, yoga, reiki, various gurus and ashrams, and so on and so forth. Every hotel, no matter how modest, offered yoga classes. Across the river from Lakshman Jhula, you could see what our guidebook termed “wedding-cake temples,” an apt description, though I thought the temples were less attractive than wedding cakes. It was a bit of a letdown, frankly, given that I’ve seen some gorgeous temples in India. These were brightly colored, but clearly products of the last forty years or so, since the Beatles popularized Rishikesh as a spiritual destination after their trip to the Maharishi Ashram (now abandoned). In addition to all of this, an entire “town” in Rishikesh, Swarg Ashram, is devoted to ashrams. This means that you walk down the street and pretty much every building/complex is an ashram, where you can go to be spiritual and learn from various swamis/gurus. I’m frankly not even sure how you’d pick one, except on someone’s recommendation. I had wanted to do some yoga, but the sheer volume of yoga classes actually convinced me otherwise, because, given their ubiquity and the fact that we were barely there two days, I had no way of guaranteeing quality or legitimacy. (There are stories of less-than-legitimate experiences.)

Before you think I didn’t enjoy Rishikesh, let me assure you otherwise. Rishikesh has some great benefits as a result of being a spiritual tourist destination. For the first time in weeks, I was able to have fruit, yogurt, and muesli for breakfast, and real coffee, and real bread! (Most of India eats white bread when not eating chapatis/rotis/naan/parathas, all of which are good, but sometimes a Western girl wants her thick, soft, whole-grain bread.) For those who head there and want some quality breakfasts,  I highly recommend Devraj Coffee Corner, overlooking the Lakshman Jhula bridge. Just next door is a pretty good bookstore, with another one just down the street.

Additionally, the natural surroundings in Rishikesh are stunning. There, you are even higher up on the Ganga than in Haridwar, and the Himalayas have begun to surround you in all their height and grandeur. We spent a lovely middle of the day (it was hot, but not as hot as Rajasthan or Delhi, so we were okay with plenty of water) wandering along a riverside path, enjoying the scenery and the hilarious signs advertising all sorts of spiritualism. Once again, lovely pictures that will never be seen. For those going to the area, I recommend staying in High Bank, which is a bit above the city and therefore much quieter and surrounded by nature. It’s a backpacker spot, but it’s really quite lovely, and nothing is as far a walk as it looks (it took no more than twenty minutes walking – or less – to get down to the river and the heart of Lakshman Jhula).

On top of all of this, you can be constantly seranaded by Hari Krishnas singing and playing music and sometimes dancing along. Yes, for the first time in your life, they will not be actively trying to evangelize. After all, they don’t need to; they know you’ll come to them.

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For those interested, Willa is also blogging, now that she’s with me. You can check out her blog either through the link on the sidebar, or here. Like Michal, she’s slightly more diligent than I.

I figured it would happen sometime, given how much I travel, and I’ve been lucky thus far. I just crossed my fingers and hoped to avoid it as long as possible, and that it wouldn’t be too bad or inconvenient. At long last, it happened.

Last night on the train from Delhi to Pathankot, I was robbed.

No worries, I’m fine, as I was actually asleep at the time, but it was traumatic all the same to wake up and find my purse gone. I must have looked like a shell-shocked little lost child, because that’s certainly what I felt like, and people were staring at me funny. (Not that this last bit is anything out of the ordinary…) Fortunately, my purse hadn’t gone far, but some of its contents will of course never be recovered. However, I was very lucky, as all the important stuff was on my person at the time, and I like to think that the thieves were disappointed to find that, after all the effort of stealthily taking my heavy bag, the only things worth taking were about $80 cash, a small pouch of hair and makeup stuff that I rarely use (random, much?), a five-year old beat-up ipod on its last legs with duct-taped earbuds, and a camera.

Really, the camera is the most upsetting thing, and only partly because I’ve only had it since January and it is probably my most prized possession on this trip (minus my passport, of course). No, cameras can eventually be replaced. What upsets me most is that all my memory cards were in the case, and therefore, I am completely without any pictures from the last 3+ months. Do you have any idea how frustrating this is?? Because I’m sure they don’t care about the photos at all and couldn’t care less whether I have them or not.

Lesson: When in transit, take your memory cards out of your camera/case and carry them in a moneybelt or wherever you keep the real stuff.

I am currently in Dharamsala (well, really, McLeod Ganj, but everyone calls it Dharamsala, which is the name of the town down the hill), the “temporary” (for the last 40+ years) home of the Dalai Lama, so I am trying to go all Tibetan Buddhist and see this as a lesson in the problems of attachment to the material world. I’ll let you know how that works out…

 

More updates to come on the last week or two.

They warned me. Every single Indian I met warned me. They said, why are you going to Rajasthan in summer [it's summer here]? They said it was insanely hot and no one in their right mind would go there this time of year. I figured it couldn’t get any worse than anything else I’d experienced thus far.

I was wrong.

Rajasthan is dry heat, which is nice, because it’s something with which I am familiar, growing up in California. It’s a refreshing change from the oppressive humidity of the rest of the country. But that doesn’t make it any less painful and unpleasant.

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Willa arrived in Mumbai nearly a week ago, after I returned that afternoon from Panchgani (I have a post about those last two days that I have to post after this sometime). I gave her the whirlwind tour of Bombay-in-a-day, which worked out fabulously, and I think she loves it as much as I do, despite the fact that we didn’t see any museums (not that there are many to see), and mostly shopped, since we had to get her a new wardrobe. Then, we set off for Udaipur, where we spent several lovely days exploring the gorgeous City Palace, the quaint town, the “lake” (it’s mostly dry this time of year), gazing longingly at the Lake Palace (they no longer let non-guests in, much to my chagrin, since it was pretty much my prime reason for wanting to go to Udaipur), taking a tour of the surrounding countryside forts and temples with some Canadians we befriended, avoiding touts and other people who wanted our money, and frequenting the same coffeeshop. We even went to a cultural dance show, it was great.

At this point, however, things went sour. On our daytrip, on the last leg as we headed back to town, Willa got sick. She might smack me for making this public knowledge, but who knows. She spent the rest of the day in bed, with me playing mommy, and fortunately felt better the next morning when we got on a bus to Jodhpur. I, on the other hand, was not so lucky. Finding myself sick in the middle of the night, I spent the better part of the bus ride trying to ignore the heat and the stares; as soon as we arrived in Jodhpur, we collapsed in our room and slept for several hours. I proceeded to not leave the room until today, finding myself with a severe fever all day yesterday. It seemed a little absurd to come all the way to Jodhpur and not get to see any of it, so, fortunately, I woke up feeling slightly better today, and we ventured out this afternoon to go see the fort, which is quite famous, actually, though I can’t remember the name off the top of my head. Needless to say, it was absolutely stunning, as is the Blue City, as Jodhpur is called, from that height. All the guidebooks and the people we’ve met suggested the audioguide, and I can add to that chorus; it’s better than most, and very informative.

What you have to understand about me and Rajasthan is that, while I have wanted to come to India for at least ten years, the buildings of Rajasthan have been my visual. And then, last year, I saw the movie The Fall. I highly, highly recommend this film for anyone who loves storytelling and creative, intelligent movies and beautiful cinematography. Beyond all of this, though, are the locations in which it was filmed, many of which are in Rajasthan; among them are the Blue City and its fort, Udaipur’s Lake Palace, and, I believe, Jaiselmer’s fort. (There is also Fatepur Sikri, but that’s another story I’ve yet to write here.) Today, in one of the fort’s courtyards, I got so excited because a scene from the movie takes place there and I could see it all in my mind; I’m sure everyone thought I was nuts. Anyway, I write this so that you will all go watch the movie and see what I’m talking about; then you can understand why I am so passionate about all of this.

Of course, I am not the only one passionate about Rajasthan’s beauty. Since getting here, I’ve noticed a marked difference in the way people treat you. First of all, this is far and beyond the most touristed place I’ve been; Goa is touristed, but it’s beach tourism, which is different. Rajasthan is aimed at people like us, and so while on the one hand you are less of an anomaly as a foreigner, more people are likely to see you as a source of money. We befriended a Mexican guy traveling around for 10 days on his own and he kept talking about how people just kept trying to get money out of him in every way possible, whether it was for him taking their picture, or giving him directions. That almost happened to us today, but women are slightly more respected in that sense, because people are somewhat less likely to just approach you. Though men will, of course, harass you, and it was worse today that I’ve seen it in weeks. Willa went out yesterday on her own and apparently our adorable hotel proprietor was very concerned about her going out alone; it’s just not kosher here, or terribly safe. She claims to have been fine, though, and only had to pretend she had a husband around to some adorable older ladies who were worried about why she was a woman alone.

In any case, it’s a different experience, as always. More to come.

I realized yesterday that not only have I been in India for 7 weeks, but this is – and will be, when I leave after two and a half months – the longest I’ve been in any one country outside the US, except for my year in France. I guess India wins some sort of award. It seems appropriate, then, that I should share some of my thoughts and observations about India, as I seem to have been mostly keeping my posts to events. My apologies if this gets a little haphazard.

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Twice in the last two weeks, I’ve been interviewed for Indian CNN (CNN-IBN).

The first time was when I was in the village/town of Shirpur (pronounced more like Shil-poor), a poor but improving place in one of the hottest parts of Maharashtra. My hostess in Mumbai is working with a group of women to help set up an English Medium school there, and invited me to accompany her out there for the weekend; I figured it would be a good experience to get out of the bigger cities and into the smaller, poorer areas, as the best experiences I’d had so far had been in the more rural parts of Kerala (though I was already loving Bombay, which I’ll write about soon, I promise). Needless to say, it was fascinating, and I was definitely a main attraction; most people there had never seen a Westerner, and most didn’t speak English. I was treated like a VIP or whatever, which was thoroughly bizarre, and was given a tour of the area and the schools and factories, to show off how developed they are, etc. I don’t know why it was important to show me, except that I’m a foreigner and therefore worth impressing? It was interesting, at least. Getting interviewed pretty much topped it all, though; they simply wanted to interview me because I’m different, and wanted to hear what I have to say. I made it back to the school too late to be interviewed there, so they took me to the local hospital to meet up with the camera crew, so somewhere out there, there is video of me being interviewed in a hospital, surrounded by tons of staring people who’ve probably never seen a Westerner in the flesh before.

It was more or less the same thing yesterday, when I was interviewed by the same TV station – the local branch, of course – at the Mapro Strawberry Festival here in Panchgani/Mahabaleshwar. Nikunj said they wanted to interview me because I look different. All they wanted to know was what I think of the area and the Strawberry Festival; I asked if they minded if I was biased, as I’m a friend of the family throwing the Festival, but apparently they didn’t. I was also wearing a saree, which garnered me even more looks yesterday than normal, but I’ll get to that in a minute. So, once again, there’s footage out there somewhere of me talking about Mahabaleshwar and the Strawberry Festival. It may be labeled as Kate Moss (thanks, Nikunj…), though I usually get Kate Winslet here. (I’ve decided it must be because of this year’s Oscars, which all of India watched, so now whenever I say my name is Kate, pretty much everyone I’ve met all over the country says, “Oh, like Kate Winslet!” I’ve even had people saying I look like her. It’s a little absurd, but at least they know my name.) Apparently I shall be interviewed many more times today…

It’s so funny to be singled out here, because in any country full of Westerners, I’m nothing special. (I know, I know, my parents think I’m special…) I’ve gotten used to the stares and barely notice them anymore; I didn’t realize this until yesterday, when I was walking around with the girls and they kept saying how everyone was staring at us, and I realized it doesn’t make me uncomfortable anymore, but of course they’re not used to it because they’re from here (though Yutika spent three months traveling with her American boyfriend, so she’s more used to it). For the most part, no one means any harm, and if I catch someone’s eye, I’ll just smile and they’ll smile back, and sometimes wave, or look away embarrassed. Occasionally, people want to take pictures, but it’s usually kids, so I don’t mind. The odd ones are when people just take pictures of me without asking; then I try to put my hand in front of my face or move or something, so they have to ask. Sometimes, people will come up and chat, asking where I’m from and how I like India, or complimenting my outfit, as I usually wear traditional clothes (this was particularly the case yesterday, when I was in a saree). I felt like a walking publicity stunt yesterday, because people kept asking if I was dressed up for a festival, so I could tell them about the Strawberry Festival.

To top all this off, on the flip side, I’ve been asked before if I’m Indian; as in, if my family is Indian. So, who knows, I don’t know what to think.

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I will likely offend some people with this next bit, but inasmuch as it’s been a bit part of my experience here, it has to be said.

Having been in India for nearly two months and having spent a good portion of that staying with family friends and in other private homes, I have become intimately familiar with the practice of having servants and drivers, etc. I have tried and tried to become inured to it, to treat it as normal, but I simply can’t get over it. For one, on a purely selfish level, I don’t like the lack of independence for myself; I can’t cook or really control what I eat (I can request things, but it depends on them knowing how to make it, and I have to deal with them thinking I’m nuts for wanting something), I can’t wander around without having to be aware of other people, I can’t really go out on my own (everyone insists that I just take a driver, because why bother paying for transportation?), I have to arrange to meet the driver at a certain time and place in order to get home (and he usually doesn’t speak much English), and the list goes on.  On a moral level, I have issues with having servants. I know, I know, I’m too American. I have issues with other people cooking and serving me food and cleaning up after me and eating separately from me and being taken for granted for pretty much anything, being considered genuinely second-class. I feel often that it’s not my place to think these things, because it’s not my culture, so I haven’t written anything on here before now, but after a conversation the other day, I’ve decided to just go for it. If anyone has any opinions, comments, etc., I’d love to hear.

Michal thought about it too, after she left, and said that maybe it’s like being a domestic servant was in the US at the turn of the last century; it was a good, secure job, where you knew you’d get good pay and good food. If you recall my comments about the factory jobs in Cambodia, which we’d consider sweatshops, where their salaries are minimal for the US but good for Cambodia, it could easily be something like that. And being a servant varies from job to job, I’m sure (based on my experiences). Still, though, I have qualms I can’t get past, and while there’s nothing I can do, I know this is a primary reason I will be relieved to get back to Western cultures.

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I’ll stop there for now, but I’d love to hear some comments.

I am currently in one of the more stunningly beautiful places in the world, with a natural landscape similar to that of the Grand Canyon, only much more lush and green, though similarly hot. Thankfully, at night it is cooler, and overall it is cooler than Mumbai.

Before I get started, I want to do a short plug for the upcoming Strawberry Festival at Mapro Gardens, near Panchgani. It starts this Friday, the 10th, and goes until the 17th, I think. There will be strawberry everything, including strawberry pizza, which particularly surprised me, but I guess it also includes chocolate, so I am sorry to be missing it. Anyway, Mapro Gardens is a lovely little spot with fresh pizzas, sandwiches, ice cream of all flavors, and pretty much any fruit jam or syrup or candy or whatever, all of which is made by Mapro, which happens to be my host’s company. They also have a lovely nursery with lots of orchids, among other flowers, as well as several other lovely garden spots. Even if you’re just stopping by, you can try any of their fruit-products for free. Apparently, they’re in Lonely Planet as having really good bathrooms, but I don’t know from experience.  Anyway, if any readers out there are going to be in Maharashtra, anywhere near Panchgani, check out the Strawberry Festival next week!

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So, where am I and what am I doing there?

I’m in a town called Panchgani, but I’m getting to know the entire surrounding area, including Mahabaleshwar and Wai and everywhere unnamed included in that. I came because my hosts in Mumbai have a friend here, and they thought I might want to escape the Bombay heat, which tends to be oppressive and exhausting, to go to a hill station, as locals do in the summer. (Yes, it’s summer here. In April.) I boarded a bus on Saturday morning and found myself in a decidedly cooler climate several hours later, with some of the most amazing and interesting hosts who have not only taken incredibly good care of me, as always, but have provided me with fascinating conversation and deliciously ripe mangoes. As we all know, the latter is of primary importance to me, considering this is the first time in my travels that I’ve finally been somewhere where the mangoes were ripe! Can you imagine three months of no mango? It was tough.

Inasmuch as everyone except for me has to work, my host set me up with young women from his office to take me around the various areas the last few days, which was definitely an experience. I can’t count the number of times in the last few weeks that I’ve been in the middle of doing something or going somewhere or talking to someone and I suddenly realize how incredibly lucky I am, and how improbable it is that I am here.

Yesterday, I went around the town of Wai with a young woman named Neelam. She took me to the college there, to the silk “factory,” several temples along the river Krishna, to the market (it was market day, and thus busy and vibrant), to visit a retired professor of English with whom I had a fascinating conversation about everything from schooling to Obama to Wai history, to lunch at a local restaurant where I wasn’t sure whether or not I’d get sick, to a 300-year old Peshwar’s house, to another temple at Manevi (not sure about the spelling), to the center for a new Marathi encyclopedia (where no one could really explain it to me, because none of them speak much English), and then to her family’s house for tea and escaping the heat. What struck me most about the day was not the history or look of the town, the stares of the people, the impressive temples, nor the smells and colors of the market (though I did particularly enjoy those). No, what struck me was rather the people with whom I interacted. Perhaps this will start to seem cliche as I try to recap the last several weeks (indeed, the last six and a half weeks) over the coming posts, but I wouldn’t write it if it weren’t true.

First, there was Neelam. She speaks English, but not comfortably; that is to say, we could understand each other, but she wasn’t comfortable expressing herself solely in English (most people here combine English with whatever other language they’re speaking), and my accent was apparently difficult for her to understand. For us to spend a day together seemed daunting at first, and I was worried we would spend too much of the day in silence, as she wasn’t particularly talkative in the first place. I desperately didn’t want to feel like a burden to her, or come off as a chore assigned by her boss, so I doubled my efforts at communication, and by the end of the day, we were getting along quite well and exchanged email addresses. As I tell everyone I meet and get along with – quite sincerely, of course – I hope she’ll come to the US someday and then I can show her around a bit.

In addition to Neelam, I met her mother, and the professor. Her mother spoke little English, but as I speak less Marathi, I was happy to speak slowly and have her understand most of what I said, so that we could communicate. It was so cool to get to see a more lower/middle class house, as most of the people with whom I’ve stayed have tended to be on the wealthier side; there wasn’t anything particularly different, except that their apartment is smaller than most places I’ve been, but then, I’ve also gotten used to Indian homes, so it’s harder for me to judge than it would have been four or six weeks ago. As for the professor, I learned a lot about the Wai/Panchgani/Mahabaleshwar area and the Indian education system; what was most fun, though, was how evidently fascinated by me he was, and how he saw me as such an opportunity for getting some questions answered. I hope I was helpful, and I thoroughly enjoyed talking to him; he seemed anxious to keep in touch, so we’ll see.

Today, I went with several other people from the office who are around my age to Mahabaleshwar, which seems to me to be a spread out area consisting of lots of view points (with exciting names, like “Kate’s Point.” I thought it was a joke the first time I heard it, but no, it’s true; we attributed it to the British who set up the hill stations here, but we couldn’t figure out the story behind it.) with impressive views of the canyons, some temples in the touristed ”Old Mahabaleshwar,” lots of large houses on lush grounds, and then the town itself. Once again, the sights were fun, but far more entertaining was getting to spend the day with three Indians around my age. Charlotte is from Goa, and she was the only one really fluent in English, so I mostly talked to her, but the other two - a girl and a guy, whose names I don’t remember, unfortunately – could more or less understand me, and would sometimes venture to try to explain things in English to me. They wanted to make sure I got the full experience, so at various points we stopped to have fresh lime juice (a very Indian thing which is nothing like what you’d expect, really – not much like lemonade at all, considering they put cumin and salt in it, but it can be quite good, though I think it is a bit of an acquired taste), roasted corn rubbed with salt and chili powder (a street food that Michal and I first had on our excursion to the Elephanta Caves near Mumbai, and since it didn’t make me sick then, I dared to risk it this time too), and then wadah pao (again, don’t know how to spell it), the quintessential Maharashtran street food. It is described as the “Indian burger,” as it consists of a potato and veg cutlet in a Portuguese-type bun (hence the “pao” in the name), and can be found all over the streets here. I’ve avoided it since the wedding in Delhi – I think we had it there – because I was warned about the sanitary levels of street food here, but there’s only so much one can do in the face of three excited Indians who want you to try their food. So far, so good…

There’s so much more I could say about Panchgani – including the schools, the landscape, the adorably British-influenced architecture of the center of town – but I’ll stop here for now and try to get myself back in the writing groove before I get back to Mumbai in a few days and then find myself no longer alone and back on the road.

Just a quick post to ask for some advice/suggestions/recommendations from whoever’s out there…

I’m in Bombay at the moment (Mumbai, if you’d rather be official, but everyone here calls in Bombay), and soon enough will be on my own, at which point I have approximately 10 days to do whatever I want, within the realms of possibility for a woman alone in India. Assuming I have to be back in Bombay at the end of those 10 days, does anyone have any feasible suggestions or ideas for things I could do? I’ve thought of a bunch of stuff, but decided to see if anyone else has any good ideas. Thoughts? Be creative! Also, keep in mind that it’s already really hot here…

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